first impressions

Do you ever have that one guy that you faintly know but you want to be friends with or at least mutually know who you are? 

So there's this one guy at my tutoring that I've known since last year when I started and my friends all think he looks like a weirdo with all that hair and ugly ugly shorts but i really thought he was a nice guy. 

Like he's the type where he'd crack lame jokes in class, make weird faces to his friends, tease the teacher, and although he isn't that intelligent he sounds like someone who is pretty fun to talk to. Weirdly this led me into appreciating his bird nest of a hair- which is actually pretty good seeming that it's natural and not permed to be that poofy- as well as his sense of style (yet my friends still diss the time he came to class in purple 3 quarters with shell patterns on them) 

though people are like "jeez ann you should just add him on fb blahblah message him balhblah" i felt like that was pretty weird. for one we don't know each other except for this little conversation i had with him after i spilt shit on the floor once and two i feel like if you've met someone in real life that you're not close to/don't really know know, adding them on facebook is really out of bonds.

so yeah, not trying to sound weird, but all this time i've been making up this image in my head and thinking that his one of those funny class clown people who could be pretty subdued and nice at the same time and that i just really want to be friends with him. 

anyway, this all went lopsided when i was on a mutual friend's twitter and his twitter got mentioned. Turns out he is a douchebag guy.

Okay i don't want to be a judgemental bitch but you know the ones that swear excessively. like serious excessively like (#SOMC - please dont try to find what this means, fck this fck that in every sentence), calls his girl friends as 'whore' 'bitches' and 'cunts' no jokingly and is so consciously stupid he doesnt think when he says shit. 

SUCH A TURNOFF. immediate turnoff. I really don't know how guys think this is the attitude to attract other girls or even be 'cool' cause this is just very douchey. 
okay you know what maybe if you had a cleaner mouth and a better attitude, you'd get more friends, but don't look like so at the moment.

idk i just get so pissed off at these things. it's like you know that this person could be better and actually is but cause they want to be so cool and topshit they have to act like a douchebag who finds its fun to act like a jerk. or maybe he's just like that normal. ermegawd first impressions are so offtrack. can i just please have some personality reading machine so i'll be able to know who to approach and who to think of so highly about jeez.