I got this off a friends blog :)
ahahas i used to have this huge list of what i want my guy to be and there were so many points there, it was impossible for a guy to have all of that. like, to be eurasian, to have mohawk hair that's not that mohawk but perfectly mohawk, to be hot but not cocky. ahahahs. i guess ive grown more mature when thinking of this topic nowadays and try to narrow down to something less picky and shallow, ahahas.
Not in order of importance.
1. Tall
I don't really know why i've wanted this since i was young. I've always had this stupid belief that my husband has to be taller than me because, on our wedding cake, his groom figurine has to be taller than my figurine and that wouldn't happen if he was taller. ahahahs seriously, that was what i was thinking.
when i look at other guys and pick out who is cute, i would usually pick the tall ones. Like the ones that are 1 or more heads taller than me. I guess there's this feeling that..they protect you better? ahahas i don't know. ahahahs ive been having endless conversations with brian about this when we'd measure our height and i'd be like 'omg you're so short your future wifey would be devastated" even though he's a head taller than me. yeah, i guess im kind of picky. But honestly, all the guys i've majorly had a crush on, including this one, is short - ahahas im sorry bubby, im teasing you again.i should stop being too picky.
2. Musically Talented
Most of the time, when i start conversations with guys, one of the first questions i ask them is if they play an instrument or not. ahahas me and my friends used to have this discussion where we talk about how we want our guy to propose to us, or how a guy would ask us out.
me, probably being the cheesiest out of all my friends, imagined this park scene where my guy friend/bf brings out a guitar and serenades to me on the park bench and then give me a rose and ask me out. omg ahahahahs so cringeworthy but yeah, that's what i wanted. but yeah, i really want a guy who could sing since im really attracted to musicians. i guess we could duet together and he could play the guitar while i play the ukulele? ahahahahas wishful thinking.
3. Be funny and easy to talk to
Iunno, most guys i know now are the type where you try to talk them up and you have to start conversations with.i'd like a guy who could get a conversation going by not giving one word responses and "ahahahs lol."
someone who could make fun of himself and just be super dorky if that's how he could make people around him be happy and laugh. i find the cutest guys are the ones that joke around and initiate conversations with a girl while making her also feel comfortable.
4. BE HIMSELF AND BE HONEST
i used to like those cool looking guys and their 'i know im hot' smirks but iunno, ive been thinking about it again and i think it could be pretty fake. tbh they are hot but i like how a guy who doesnt care about his hair, his clothes and his coolness. i mean, i like guys who could dress super well and stylish and who has really pretty hair and who could not smile but look sexy in all angles but..iunno is that really him? at least, underneath all that prettyness, they should just act like themselves instead of pleasing other people by acting cool.
I'd like a guy who could just be himself. like if he's dorky, be dorky. if he likes anime/gaming...don't hide it. and if he has things he needs to say; bitchrants and all, he could come to me and say it. i wouldn't like it if he changes to please me/to make me think he's cool.
5. Who doesn't mind my personally.
ahahahs yeah. i want a guy that, whenever i feel like ranting, he'd be there for me and feel like chucking shit at that bitch as well. that whenever i feel like being crazy and derpy, he'd laugh at me and be crazy and derpy as well. and when im happy, he'd go and throw confetti around ahahahahs. no not really, but something along those lines. a guy who'd i'd feel comfortable around but feels comfortable around with me.
he doesn't need to be cute/hot - but it'll be a plus- and he doesnt need to have the perfect eyes, the perfect face shape. he doesnt need to have rock hard abs and bajillion monies where he could take me shopping and make me feel like a princess.
he just needs to be there for me. iunno, i think it might be hard to find a guy who'd be like that since every guy i know nowadays are so concentrated on looking cool and being attractive, but i think they'll be a guy there that, under all those glitz, would be that ideal. cause i think all those pointers - maybe not counting the height- is what i define as attractive.
so cheesy ahahahs.
im outtie :)
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